I do this sometimes, so it could well be true that I did it with you.
But this isn't necessarily a mistake for me to look carefully
at a patch and ask for changes or explanations. You can say you
don't like it--a statement like that needs no justification--but
if you want to show I did something wrong, that calls for more
than your preferences. And it also calls for giving me a chance
to show justification for what I did. You seem to have convicted
me without that step.